Thursday

For I resolved to know nothing

while I was with you except

Jesus Christ and him crucified.

1 Corinthians 2:2 (NIV)


Barbara Bennett Gaines got a good report. There is no evidence of

cancer. Join Barbara in rejoicing over this news. Thank God for this

good report.

Barbara’s cousin, Kitty, learned the doctors have decided to try to hold off

on additional surgery. Kitty’s condition calls for much prayer,

Jared Prescott is home. The family is appreciative of your prayers. God

still has plans for Jared and David Gullotta! David’s liver issues are still

a serious concern. Please continue to pray for both of these young men as

they heal.

Update on Don Denton

Don update:

Don is still in the hospital at Cox South. He is doing

much better. His headache pain is gone. The tests

reveal thatthe pressure from the Spinal Tap is slightly

elivated. This is nothing to be concerned about as it

is the lowest that it has been since Don has been sick

three months ago. That is a good thing.

The doctor believes that Dons steroids were being

tapered off too soon. So we are going to be more

purposeful in how we go about that.

Don does not have a secondary infection, nor does

he have a reoccurrence of this disease. These are all

good reports. We are hoping the doctor will let him

come home ina few days. My brother Steve and his

wife Lynn flew in very latelast night. I am so thankful

for them. Joshua loves them so much and is happy

they are here to help out and of course play with him.

We will be celebrating New Years Day at the hospital

tomorrow with Don.

We are giving thanks to God again for his mercy to us.

We are very tired so please pray that we will be able to

get the rest we need.

Thank you again for your love and care for us.

Happy New Year

Blessings to you our family and friends.

Diane

Jo Ann James
(April 12, 1938 – December 30, 2008)

Died at 1:40PM on Tuesday, December 30, 2008 at King’s Daughter’s

Hospital in Brookhaven, MS. She was a native of Kentwood, LA and a

resident of Brookhaven, MS. Age 70 years. Visitation at McKneely

Funeral Home, Kentwood, from 5 p.m. until 8 p.m. on Thursday and

from 11 a.m. until religious services at 2 p.m. Friday. Services conducted

by Rev. Ben Wayne Blackwell. Interment Woodland Cemetery, Kentwood,

LA. Survived by 4 daughters, Lisa Francis, Baton Rouge, LA, Leigh Ann

Wrather, Smurna, TN, Joni Spears, McComb, MS, Shy Ann James,

Brookhaven, MS, 2 sons, Joseph Francis, Pickins, MS, John Mark Spears,

Osyka, MS, 10 grandchildren. Preceded in death by mother, Ruby Lee

McDaniel Blackwell, father, Benjamin Blackwell, 2 brothers, Arlan Ray

Blackwell, Carl Blackwell.

Luther Ray Reynolds
(August 31, 1961 – December 21, 2008)

Luther Ray Reynolds was born on August 31, 1961 and passed away on

December 21, 2008 at the Port Allen Care Center, Port Allen, LA. He was

47, a native of Chicago, IL, and a resident of Port Allen. Luther was the

son of the late Harold & Virginia Speed Reynolds.

He is survived by his brother Wilbern “Will” Reynolds and wife Telena,

Southhaven, MS; a half- brother, Jack Speed and wife, Dawn, Chatawa,

MS; nieces and nephews, Dan Speed and wife, Brooke, June Speed

Gatlin and husband, Patrick, Jesse Reynolds, Nicole Reynolds Jones,

and husband, Jason, & Hunter Reynolds.

Luther was a member of the First Baptist Church of Greensburg.

A Memorial Service will be at later date.

An on-line Guestbook is available at http://www.mckneelyvaughnfh.com

McKneely & Vaughn Funeral Home, Amite, in charge of arrangements.

Rev. F. Ory Miller
Retired minister Ory Miller died Tuesday, Dec. 30, 2008, at Golden

Age Nursing Home in Denham Springs. He was 89, born June 15,

1919, in Walker, where he graduated from high school in 1936.

He was a member of the U.S. Army Air Forces and served in the

European Theater. After working 14 years in the banking

business, he entered the ministry in 1950 and graduated from

Louisiana College in 1953 and the New Orleans Baptist

Theological Seminary in 1956. He pastored Baptist churches

for 23 years before joining the Southern Methodist

denomination for 35 years. Rev. Miller served churches in

Louisiana and South Carolina. Some of the churches he pastored

in the area are First Baptist Church in Livingston, Line Creek

Baptist Church in Kentwood, First Baptist Church in Greensburg,

Eden Baptist Church in Denham Springs, Spring Creek Baptist

Church, and First Southern Methodist Church in Hammond. For

the past nine years, he was the resident minister at La

Plantation Retirement Center in Denham Springs. An active

member of the Denham Springs Masonic Lodge F&AM, he was

also a member of the Eastern Star. Rev. Miller is survived by

his wife of almost 69 years, Ethel Laird Miller; a daughter, Judy

Miller Lytle; two sons, Wendell Ory “Yogi” Miller and wife Karen

McBride and Jim Miller and wife Adele; seven grandchildren,

Troy Miller and wife Julie, Chris Miller, Robyn Atkinson and

husband Bradley, Bill Miller, Jay Miller and wife Daphne, Leslie

Schmidt and husband Adam, and Hilory Lytle; nine great-

grandchildren and several nieces and nephews, with special

mention of Sandra Ecoles, his very caring, loving and

dependable niece. He was preceded in death by his parents,

William Christopher Miller and Martha Geneva McNabb Miller;

and three sisters and brothers-in-law, Lorraine and Bentley

Rheams, Thelma and Cecil Eccles, and Vergie and Carl Eccles;

and a son-in-law, Terry Lytle. Visitation at Seale Funeral Home,

Denham Springs, on Friday, Jan. 2, from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m.

Visitation at Hebron Baptist Church, Denham Springs, on

Saturday, Jan. 3, from 10 a.m. until funeral service at 1 p.m.,

followed by a Masonic service at the cemetery. The services wil

l be led by the Rev. Olan McLaren of Davis Springs Southern

Methodist Church, with assistance by the Rev. Jim Efferson of

Indian Mound Baptist Church, and the Rev. Joe Alain of Hebron

Baptist Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to

your local church or your favorite charity. Ory Miller reveled in

his grandchildren and enjoyed playing puzzle games and memory

skills games with them to sharpen their logic skills as well as

making it fun to remember Bible facts. He was a faithful servant

and evangelist of the Lord, always striving to lighten the load of

his family and fellow man. He lived his life as a Christian.

Prayer Requests

Prayer requests

“Let the little children come to Me, and don’t stop them, because the

kingdom of God belongs to such as these,” Luke 18:16b

THE FAITH OF A CHILD

A 4-year-old Chinese boy in Canada was punished by his

parents. He was really upset and wanted to talk to his Sunday

School teacher. Miss E is his teacher, so the parents called her

on the phone. She talked with the little boy and let him tell

his side of the story. Then she asked, “Would you like to pray?”

He said, “Yes.” Miss E waited for the little boy to start praying

but she didn’t hear anything. Maybe he wanted her to pray.

After a little while, the boy’s daddy picked up the phone. He

told Miss E that the 4-year-old was doing just what she

suggested. He had put down the phone to kneel and fold his

hands. He was praying!

This 4-year-old was upset with his parents, but he knew what

to do. He talked to someone he trusted, his teacher. His

teacher helped calm him down then asked him to talk to God.

This little boy learned a lot that day, but he also showed his

mommy and daddy how much he loves and trusts Jesus.

MORE PRAYER REQUESTS FROM MISSIONARY KIDS

Pray that I’ll have courage to be an empowered witness…that

the people will see Christ in me and They may come to know

Him. KARRINGTON, age 15, (Central, Eastern and Southern

Africa)

Please pray for me that I will love others. I want to be loved

by them too, so please pray for me to be a good friend. TIM,

age 11 (Pacific Rim)

Pray for people affected by the earthquake in China, that God

will help them to rebuild their homes. Michael, age 6 (East

Asia)

Pray for our family (especially my parents) to pick up the

language. AMANDA, age 14, (Central, Eastern and Southern

Africa)

Please pray for my family. We need visas to get into our

country and they are very hard to get. Pray for my national

friends too. One of my friends has a heart problem. She has

to go to the doctor almost every day after school. My friend

in my ballet class does not know Jesus. She is a good friend.

Please pray that I will be able to share to her about Him.

ABIGAIL, age 12 (Central Asia)

Thank God for God’s people, God’s wonder, and God’s

kindness. Please pray for missionaries. RUTH, age 7 (South

Asia)

Please pray for the Senegalese people, as many of them

are Muslims. Also, I have a friend who comes over to play

with me a lot. She is a Muslim and her father says that won’t

change. I’ve told her about Jesus and his many miracles

before, but she tries to not listen to me. Please pray for her

and her family. Thank you! HANNAH, age 11 (West Africa)

Please pray for my family’s budget. We get paid in dollars,

but we spend it in a country that uses a different kind of

money. So, we have to change the dollars into the local

money. When the dollar went down, our dollars weren’t worth

as much. It’s kind of like what happened in the US when the

price of gas went up. One day you pay $20 for a tank of gas;

a few weeks later it’s $40 for the same amount of gas.

Please pray we spend our money wisely. Also please pray for

the people where we live, they are all Islamic and need Christ.

DAVID, age 11 (Northern Africa and the Middle East)

Please pray for my family by praying that we won’t get sick

and for God to take care of us. TANIALL, age 8 (Pacific Rim)

Please pray that God will keep my family safe since we

moved and that I won’t miss my cat that much. And please

pray that my mom and dad will let me watch a movie and

let Joy come over for a sleep over. CHLOE, age 8, (Central,

Eastern and Southern Africa)


4 Resolutions Worth Making
By Kelly Boggs

ALEXANDRIA, La. (BP)–While researching the subject of New

Year’s resolutions I came across the following quote: “He who

breaks a resolution is a weakling; He who makes one is a fool.”

The person from whom this quote flowed is obviously as much

a pessimist as a cynic when it comes to making a fresh start

on Jan. 1st.

“The object of a New Year is not that we should have a new

year. It is that we should have a new soul and a new nose;

new feet, a new backbone, new ears, and new eyes,” wrote

English author G.K. Chesterton. “Unless a particular man

made New Year resolutions, he would make no resolutions.

Unless a man starts afresh about things, he will certainly do

nothing effective.”

In recent years, the making of New Year’s resolutions — or

rather the breaking of them -– has become fodder for late-

night comics. That said, I agree with Chesterton that there

is something noble about seeking to better oneself with the

making of resolutions.

Once a person reaches the point that he or she sees no value

in seeking to become better by resolving to change, that

person has given up on living life and has settled on simply

existing. This, if you think about it, is in and of itself a

resolution –- a resolution to settle for mediocrity.

The problem with too many resolutions is they lack

imagination. It seems everyone makes the same resolutions

and some make them year after year. According to a federal

government website the following are some of the most

popular New Year’s resolutions:

— Lose weight.

— Eat right.

— Manage debt.

— Save money.

— Get a better job.

— Quit smoking.

When it comes to making New Year’s resolutions, I have found

that less is more. By making only a few resolutions, I am able

to concentrate on two or three aspects of my life that I really

want to change. As a result, I give myself a much better

opportunity to follow through.

Trying to make wholesale changes to your life in a year’s time

is difficult at best. However, making only one or two changes

annually, over time, you can change almost every aspect of

your life. If you altered two things a year for 10 years, you will

have changed 20 aspects of your life. And that, my friend, is

significant change.

I recently came across something titled “Wisdom for Life”

written by business and ministry consultant Bobb Biehl. It is

short and to the point. In it, he quotes author Stephen R.

Covey.

“I have … found that by making four simple assumptions in

our lives we can immediately begin leading a more balanced,

integrated, powerful life,” Covey wrote.

What are these four assumptions? They are as follows:

1. “For the body, assume you have had a heart attack;

now live accordingly.”

I found the first assumption sobering, because if I don’t

change certain aspects of my life, I could well be a candidate

for a coronary. So by assuming, or pretending, I have had

one, I simply need to ask, “Will this help or hurt my health?

2. “For the mind, assume the half-life of your profession

is two years; now prepare accordingly.”

Being an editor of what currently is primarily a print publication,

this is not a difficult assumption for me. As a result, I must

constantly be looking to the future to not only seek to retool

my publication, but also my own knowledge base and skill set.

3. “For the heart, assume everything you say about

another, they can overhear; now speak accordingly.”

The third assumption also is a sobering one and reminiscent

of Jesus’ words, “Do unto others as you would have them do

unto you.” Enough said.

4. “For the spirit, assume you have a one-on-one visit

withyour Creator every quarter; now live accordingly.”

As a believer, I don’t have to wait three months to visit with

God. I can, and should meet with Him constantly. However,

the thought of scheduling a regular “performance review”

with the Lord could and should have an impact on my daily

decisions and thus my life.

As a result of Covey’s wisdom, I have resolved this year to

make four “New Year’s assumptions.” And while I likely will

fail from time to time, I believe the effort will pay off and I

will be better for it this time next year — which makes me

no weakling and certainly no fool.

(Kelly Boggs is a weekly columnist for Baptist Press and editor

of the Baptist Message (www.baptistmessage.com),

newsjournal of the Louisiana Baptist Convention.)

I pray 2009 will be an especially good year for you and

yours.

Anna Lee

Wednesday

“Or what man is there among you who,

if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone?

Or if he asks for a fish, will he give him a serpent?

If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children,

how much more will your Father who is in heaven

give good things to those who ask Him!”

Matthew 7:9-11


Mrs. Faye Price continues to show slow improvement. She was able to eat

a little ice cream, an indication she is better. Continue to pray for “Miss” Faye,

the medical staff, and the extended family. Laura told me how much it means

to her for people to tell her they are praying for her grandmother.

BUCHAREST, ROMANIA (BOO-kuh-rest). 2009–a new year! When

the clock strikes midnight the morning of January 1 in Bucharest, fireworks

will light up the sky. For members of Team Bucharest, it is always an

interesting sight to see: fireworks being shot from windows and on the streets.

No, it’s not safe, but it’s amazing to see how Romanians spend a lot of money

for just a few minutes of excitement. As the new year begins, please pray for

Romanians to know the Lord who can give them true joy–not just a face on

an icon, but their Savior who loves them. http://www.imbromania.ro/

(I’ve tried to sleep through this, but it is impossible. I found this much more

than interesting. I was very afraid! Yes, they need to know the Lord and His

great joy! Anna Lee)

MANDARIN CHINESE IN CANADA. Distressed after being disciplined by

his parents, a 4-year-old boy asked to talk with his Sunday School teacher.

On the phone, Miss E listened as M shared his burden and then helped him

find peace. Finally she said, “Would you like to pray?” He answered, “Yes.”

She waited for M to start a prayer on the phone but, after a time of silence,

sensed no one was on the line. Finally M’s father picked up the phone to

explain: The little boy had set the phone down to kneel and fold his hands,

and he was praying. Ask God to give highly educated Chinese believers who

face many difficult challenges in daily living the faith and humility of a child.

Pray that they will grow spiritually, enduring hardship as discipline, allowing

God to use each distressing event to conform them to the image of Christ.

http://www.macregion.org/

ONESTORY: WEST AFRICA. Susan, a member of the OneStory Senufo

Syenara Team, shares: “The Syenara story set is complete. Please pray for

the Syenara people as they hear stories from God’s Word in their very own

language for the first time ever.”

FBC, Kentwood will have a service at 6:30 P.M. tonight that will focus on the

new year. You are invited to attend. The youth will have a special activity

tonight. Contact Bro. Bucky or the church office for information.

KneEmail by Mike Benson

Trust

abtrust.jpgIT’S IMPORTANT TO be careful where

you place your trust…

Some barbers say “trust me” as half of

your eyebrow falls into your lap.

Some dentists say “trust me” as they

drill down deeper than Exxon.

Some postal workers say “trust me,” stamp your package “Fragile,” and then

drop-kick it into the parcel bin.

Some manicurists say “trust me,” as they push your cuticles back to your elbow.

Some mechanics say “trust me,” then make your engine purr like a kitten…

with strep throat.

Some friends say “trust me” as they borrow your favorite shirt, accidentally

wash it in hot water, then hand you back a swatch.

A lot of people say “trust me,” but don’t quite earn your trust. They fall short

of their promises, and leave you wishing you hadn’t placed your faith in them

in the first place.

Aren’t you glad, though, that when God says “trust Me,” you can?

(Martha Bolton)

“He is a shield unto them that put their trust in Him” ( Prov. 30:5b

KJV).

Have a great day! Be safe!

Anna Lee

Monday – Prayers Needed

Don Denton

P r a y e r N e e d e d !

This morning Don was admitted to the hospital in Springfield after re-developing

sever headaches and neck pain yesterday. So far a CT scan has revealed

hydrocephlis dialated ventricals in the brain. They are giving him plasma to

thicken the blood, so a spinal tap can be done asap.

It is believed that part of what is going on has to do with his being weined off

the steroids.

Obviously, Diane, Don and Joshua need your prayers.

HELP is also need with Joshua. Diane is looking for those whom Joshua has

stayed with in the past, whom he is very familiar with, who can keep him, or

take care of him to let her know asap. I know some of you will want to volunteer

to take care of him who have not in the past, however, he has been going

through a very hard time,as you can imagine and therefore Diane does not

feel that it would be best to introduce some new into his care at this time.

If you can help with Joshua, please call Diane on her cel. 417-399-8520.

If you have questions you can reach me (Steve-her brother) @

spfisk@yahoo.com or 832-236-5577

Thanks you for your prayers and support through all of this.

Monday Afternoon

Joan Hagan said her cousin Kitty was having problems that may require

additional surgery. Please pray for Kitty and the medical staff caring for her.

Jared Prescott was doing very well. He may be able to come home today or

tomorrow. Please continue to pray for him and for David Gullota.

Wallace Merritt
(July 27, 1920 – December 29, 2008)

A native of Tangipahoa Parish, long time resident of Baton Rouge and

current resident of Kentwood, Wallace Merritt passed away on Monday,

December 29, 2008 at the age of 88. Retired from the United States Air

Force, Wallace was a veteran of World War II and double recipient of the

Purple Heart.

He is survived by one son, Donald McMillan of Kentwood; four grandsons,

Dalton McMillan of Kentwood, Mehmet McMillan of San Francisco,

California, Orhan McMillan of Baton Rouge and Dale McMillan of Galvez;

two great grandsons, Joshua and Jeremy McMillan; one great granddaughter,

Madeline McMillan; one great-great grandson, Brayden McMillan; one sister,

Geraldine Sanders of Kentwood and sister-in-law, Nell McLin of Baton Rouge.

He is preceded in death by his wife, Zelma McMillan Merritt, parents Obediah

and Jessie Grace Merritt, and sister, Maxine Simmons.

The family wishes to acknowledge the many devoted health care professionals

who cared for him since his stroke in June, with a special thank you to Tracy

Bergeron.

Visitation will be held at McKneely Funeral Home in Kentwood from 5:00-

8:00 PM on Thursday, January 1st and 10:00-11:00 AM Friday, January 2nd

with the funeral service following at 11:00 AM. Services will be conducted by

Rev. Danny Smith of Spring Creek Baptist Church. Interment will be at Mt.

Hermon Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Joseph Hospice,

19405 Helenberg Rd., Suite 206, Covington, LA 70443 or Spring Creek Baptist

Church Building Fund, 72937 Hwy. 1061, Kentwood, LA 70444.

Tuesday

I know what it is to be in need,

and I know what it is to have plenty.

I have learned the secret of being content

in any and every situation,

whether well fed or hungry,

whether living in plenty or in want.

Philippians 4:12 (NIV)

Three posts yesterday concerning Don Denton:

MONDAY, DECEMBER 29, 2008 10:49 AM, CST

Prayer Requests for Don:

  • Don was seen by his primary care physician this

morning – Don has significant increase in headache pain,

stiffness in neck and lower back and a rash again. He

is very dizzy and sick to his stomach again.

  • He will see neuro next week. If he continues w/

increase of these symptoms he will be seen sooner.

  • Pray that the doctors here will be able to get to the

bottom of this. We are also praying that they will conduct

MRI’s again to do comparisions.

We had a really good Christmas weekend, it was this morning

that Don woke up with these symptoms.

Blessings

Diane

MONDAY, DECEMBER 29, 2008 11:01 PM, CST

Don Update

We spoke to another of Don’s doctors today who helped

clarify the severity of his pain, his dizziness and stiffness.

Don’s prednisone continues to be tapered down and this

weekend he is now down to a much smaller dosage. When

someone has inflammation of the nerves, brain and spine

and healing is still ongoing it could cause a reaction such

as this one. So Don’s meds have been increased to help.

By late this evening his pain was reduced.

Don’s body is so immunial suppressed that we have to be

very careful. He will see four different doctors next week

along with physical therapy. Please pray for the following:

  • All of his doctors will have the wisdom they need to
help with continued improvement. Don really can’t wait
to be back to work for the Spring semester and we are
hopeful for that.
  • Pray for healing of these nerve endings and
inflammation in brain and spine.
  • Don is showing improvement with regard to his
walking more with walker and less with wheel chair.
  • Pray for Joshua as he sees his daddy who has a day
like today and he becomes fearful. For a four year old this
is very scary and for an adult for that matter it is too.

This has been a long journey. I am asking you all to continue

to pray and believe that the good work that God continues

to do in Don will continue. I don’t believe that God has

brought us this far to leave us either. It can be so very

discouraging when a day like today happens for all of us.

My heart goes out to Don and Joshua when I see the

suffering. Joshua afraid that if he asks his daddy to “do

something” that his daddy will get sick and sleep for days

and it will be his fault. It breaks my heart to see my son hurt

like this.

Pray that I will have the wisdom, understanding, discernment,

love and acceptance that he needs.

I am here again, asking for God’s mercy upon us. Asking you

our friends to lift us up before God as we are in such need

these days. Waiting, Hoping and Believing.

Blessings to you our friends and family.

Diane

MONDAY, DECEMBER 29, 2008 11:34 PM, CST

This is a poem that a dear friend shared with me. I share it with you. It is truth and hope. Enjoy….

God, make me brave for life:

oh, braver than this.

Let me straighten after pain, as a

tree straightens after the rain,

Shining and lovely again.

God, make me brave for life;

much braver than this.

As the blown grass lifts, let me rise

From sorrow with quiet eyes,

Knowing Thy way is wise.

God, make me brave, life brings

Such blinding things.

Help me to keep my sight;

Help me to see aright

That out of dark comes light

Please continue to pray for Don, Diane, and Joshua Denton. The

“road” they have traveled on the last few months has be hilly, full of

curves, and blocked with many obstacles for them to mangage to

get over, under, around, and through. God has been with them on

this journey – each step of the way.

I’m sure the poem Diane shared will be meaningful to many of you.

You may need it now for yourself or someone else. You may not

need it today, but will in the future. Print it and tuck it away for that

day.

Baptist Press

December 29, 2008

ISRAEL–Baptists proclaim Gospel in Manger Square.

http://bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=29577

OKLAHOMA–Exec recounts Hobby Lobby’s ministry.

http://bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=29578

SOUTH CAROLINA–Billy Graham joins FBC Spartanburg.

http://bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=29579

TENNESSEE–RESOURCE: 7 words of worship.

http://bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=29580

KENTUCKY–FIRST-PERSON (R. Albert Mohler Jr.):

A generation immersed in media.

http://bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=29581

Salvadore Ruffino, Sr.
(November 2, 1916 – December 28, 2008)

U.S. Veteran Died at 5:58 p.m. on Sunday, December 28, 2008 at Baton Rouge

General Medical Center in Baton Rouge. He was a native and resident of

Amite. Age 92 years. He was a U. S. Army Veteran of World War II. For many

years, Mr. Sam drove a school bus for Oak Forest Academy in Amite. Visitation

at McKneely Funeral Home, Amite, from 10 a.m. on Tuesday until religious

services at 1 p.m. Tuesday. Interment Colonial Mausoleum, Independence.

Survived by 3 daughters, Loretta Borde and her husband, Stanley, Tickfaw,

Frances Ann Nijoka and her husband, Barry, Greenwell Springs, Sandra

Petty and her husband Chuck, Prairieville, 1 son, Sal Ruffino, Jr., Amite,

7 grandchildren, Matthew Feder, Alisha Nijoka, Jared Nijoka and his wife,

Elisabeth, Mary Ann Cline and her husband, Trey, Elizabeth Orobono and

her husband, Fran, Maeghan Ruffino, Kristin Ruffino, 2 great-grandchildren,

Michael Ragan, Anna Cline, 1 sister, Mary Checchin, Lakemore, IL, 2 brothers,

Nunzio Ruffino, Amite, Louis Ruffino, Baton Rouge. Preceded in death by wife,

Anna Leto Ruffino, 5 sisters, Lucy Costanza, Pamela Alack, Stella Terracina,

Josie Burrell and Rose Ruffino; 3 brothers, John, Tony and Joe Ruffino;

parents, Louis and Laura Ruffino.

Debra Lynn Burkeens
(August 22, 1964 – December 26, 2008)

Debra Lynn  Burkeens

Debra Lynn “Debbie” Woods Burkeens who will always be remembered and

loved by her son, family and friends was born on August 22, 1964 and passed

away at 7:42PM, Friday, December 26, 2008 at the St. Helena Parish Hospital,

Greensburg. She was 44, a native of Bay St. Louis, MS and a resident of

Montpelier. Debbie was the daughter of Edward Woods and the late Charlotte

Taylor Woods.

She is survived by a son, Nicholas Joe Zona and fiancée’, Ashley Bailey,

Temple, TX; father, Edward T. Woods and step-mother, Margaret Woods,

Walhalla, SC; 4 sisters, Mildred Smith and husband John W., III, Seneca, SC,

Brenda J. Murphy and husband, Mike, Pineville, LA, Rita Wells and husband,

Danny, Tickfaw & Cheryl Zwinkel, Seneca, SC; 4 brothers, Keith Woods and

wife, Debra, Seneca, SC, Dale Woods and wife Geneva, Ponchatoula, Joseph

“Joe” Woods and wife, Tammy, Independence, & Phillip Woods and wife,

Charlotte, North Carolina; 5 grandchildren & 30 nieces & nephews.

Preceded in death by mother, Charlotte Taylor Woods & husband, Thomas

Burkeens.

Visitation will be at the McKneely & Vaughn Funeral Home, Amite, on

Tuesday, December 30, 2008 from 5:00PM until 9:00PM and on Wednesday,

December 31, 2008 from 8:00AM until Religious Services in the funeral

home Chapel at 11:00AM with Bro. Bobby Carroll officiating. Interment in

the Colonial Mausoleum.

An on-line Guestbook is available at http://www.mckneelyvaughnfh.com

McKneely & Vaughn Funeral Home, Amite, is located at I-55N & Hwy 16W

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PARENTS HAVE TO LIVE IT

At one point during a game, the coach said to one of his young players,

“Do you understand what cooperation is and what teamwork is all about?”

The little boy nodded in the affirmative.

“Do you understand that what really matters is not whether we win or lose,

but that we play together as a team?” The little boy nodded yes.

“Good,” the coach continued. “And, when a strike is called, or you’re

hrown out at first, you don’t argue, curse, attack the umpire with a bat, or

throw dirt in the opposing team members’ faces. Do you understand all that?”

Again the little boy nodded, “Well, sure, coach. That’s what you taught us.”

“Good,” said the coach. “Now, please go over there and explain all that to

your mother.”

I’ve been to a few Little League games when the above conversation needed

to take place! It’s sad to see parents who act in an irresponsible manner

because you know that they are teaching their children (and others’ children)

to behave in a similar manner.

God has given those of us who are parents an awesome responsibility —

not only to teach our children what is right, but to live in such a way that

they can see that we are willing to practice what we’ve been teaching them

to do.

Moses told the parents of Israel to take the laws which God had given

them and “teach them diligently to your children….” (Deut. 6:7). But before

telling parents to do that, he warned them: “Therefore hear, O Israel, and

be careful to observe it….” (Deut. 6:3).

Before we can teach a love of God and others to our children, it must be in

our own hearts. May God bless those of you who are parents as you strive to

do just that. May your life be so filled with a desire to follow God that your

children will be open to hear all that you have to say to them.

Have a great day!

Alan Smith
Helen Street Church of Christ
Fayetteville, North Carolina

I’ll post some updates later.

Anna Lee