Mrs. Bernice Simmons passed away about thirty minutes ago. Please be in prayer for her family. She will be greatly missed by the family and the people of Kentwood!
Category: Praises, Requests, & Updates
Saturday
“God showed His great love for us
by sending Christ to die for us
while we were still sinners.”
~Romans 5:8 NLT~
Jimmy and Retia Dukes and family
Friday, April 10, 2009 10:29 PM, EDT
Friday, April 10, 2009 11:24 PM, EDT
A local news station, WWL, and a very kind reporter who found out about Mom and Pop’s accident from a friend, covered Mom and Pop’s story today. It was a featured story – 2nd in the lineup at 9pm and 10pm.
Thank you, Susan Edwards, for your compassionate heart and your sincere concern for our family. We appreciate the story highlighting the love of Mom and Dad shared all these years and the amazing outpouring of love toward them since the accident.
Here’s the link:
http://www.wwltv.com/video/news-index.html?nvid=350935
Just wanted to share it with yall.
-jason
INTERNATIONAL MISSIONS PRAYERLINE
INTERNATIONAL MISSION BOARD
Friday, April 10, 2009
“Do not be afraid, for I know that you seek Jesus who was crucified. He is not here, for he has risen, as he said. Come, see the place where he lay. Then go quickly and tell his disciples that he has risen from the dead” (Matthew 28:5b-7a, ESV).
Dear Intercessors, this is Eleanor Witcher of the Office of Global Prayer Strategy, praying with you for those who do not know the joy of Easter.
In the Philippines, many traditions surround this week of remembering Christ’s death and resurrection. Most businesses are closed for part of Friday, and most public transportation is suspended. Much emphasis is placed on Jesus’ suffering and death as devotees walk several kilometers, some carrying crosses or beating themselves to pay penance for their sins.
The majority of the people in Taichung, Taiwan however, will spend Easter just like any other Sunday. They will work, shop or spend some time in a park with friends or family. Pray that this Easter, the wonder and miracle of Christ’s resurrection will be proclaimed in such a way through the bold witness of Taiwanese believers that many will be “added to their numbers.”
Sadly, the words “He is risen! He is risen indeed!” are not heard in Saudi Arabia unless they are whispered between believers. As in Taichung, Easter is just another workday. Please pray that believers will radiate the love of Jesus during this special season. Pray that their Saudi coworkers and neighbors will see the joy in their faces and ask genuine questions.
* Please pray for new Waray-Waray believers in the Philippines to grasp the truth that Christ has come down from the cross and risen again, claiming victory over death and the grave.
* Ask God to help immature believers understand the assurance they have in Jesus’ complete sacrifice.
* Pray for yourself and for Christians in such diverse places as the Philippines, Taiwan, and Saudi Arabia to have boldness to share with their families, friends and relatives the message of the good news of salvation through Christ alone.
From Annie’s Home Page:
The NEW Jelly Bean Prayer
Red is for the blood He gave,
Green is for the grass He made,
Yellow is for the sun so bright,
Orange is for the edge of night.
Black, white, brown, yellow and red is for the children He made
All of these colors receive the grace He gave,
Purple is for the hour of sorrow,
Pink is for the new tomorrow.
Give a bag full of jelly beans,
Colorful and sweet,
Tell them it’s a Prayer….
It’s a promise..
It’s an Easter Treat!
Also from Annie’s Home Page:
“Resurrection Cookies”
~Also known as Easter Story Cookies~

This is a great recipe to teach your Children the REAL story of Easter.
So Grab your Apron and Let’s Get Started!!!!!!!
You will need:
1 cup whole pecans
1 teaspoon vinegar
3 egg whites
a pinch salt
1 cup sugar
a zipper baggy
1 wooden spoon
scotch tape
Bible

Instructions:
These are to be made the evening before Easter. Preheat oven to 300F.
*** (this is very important — don’t wait until you are half done with the recipe).
Place pecans in zipper baggy and let children beat them with the wooden spoon
to break into small pieces. Explain that after Jesus was arrested. He
was beaten by the Roman soldiers. Read: John 19:1-3

Let each child smell the vinegar. Put 1 teaspoon vinegar into mixing bowl.
Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross He was given vinegar
to drink. Read: John 19:28-30

Add egg whites to vinegar. Eggs represent life. Explain that Jesus gave His life
to give us life. Read: John 10:10&11
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Sprinkle a little salt into each child’s hand. Let them taste it and brush the rest
into the bowl. Explain that this represents the salty tears shed by Jesus’ followers,
and the bitterness of our own sin. Read: Luke 23:27
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So far the ingredients are not very appetizing. Add 1 cup sugar. Explain that the
sweetest part of the story is that Jesus died because He loves us. He wants us to
know and belong to Him. Read: Psalm 34:8 and John 3:16
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Beat with a mixer on high speed for 12 to 15 minutes until stiff peaks are formed.
Explain that the color white represents the purity in God’s eyes of those whose sins
have been cleansed by Jesus. Read: Isaiah 1:18 and John 3:1-3

Fold in broken nuts. Drop by teaspoon onto waxed paper covered cookie sheet.
Explain that each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus’ body was laid.
Read: Matthew 27:57-60

Put the cookie sheet in the oven, close the door and turn the oven OFF.

Give each child a piece of tape and seal the oven door.
Explain that Jesus’ tomb was sealed. Read: Matthew 27:65-66

GO TO BED!
Explain that they may feel sad to leave the cookies in the oven overnight.
Jesus’ followers were in despair when the tomb was sealed. Read: John 16:20&22

On Resurrection Sunday (Easter) morning, open the oven and give everyone a cookie. Notice the cracked
surface and take a bite. The cookies are hollow! On the first Easter Jesus’ followers were amazed
to find the tomb open and empty. Read: Matthew 28:1-9
Jesus is the reason for the season!
Anna Lee
Good Friday
“But Jesus remained silent and gave no answer.
Again the high priest asked Him,
“Are you the Christ, the Son of the Blessed One?”
~Mark 14:61 NIV~
Would you please add Ms. Margaret Huber to the prayer list. She is having surgery today. They have found a tumor where the large and small intestine are joined.
Mary Margaret Kundler
Caring Bridge Update on Dukes
Spoke with Jason and Erik for the latest update:
They got news that they did NOT actually fix dad’s wrist. Because the skin abrasions were severe enough there, they did not want to risk infection. So they DID fix his humurous, but NOT his ulna.
As the day went on, dad got a little bit more sensible. He struggled a bit coming out of the anasthesia. They did write orders to begin transition to a step down room out of ICU. They expect that to happen tomorrow. He will still be under close watch in a room with a sitter.
As for mom, the neurosurgeon told us that there is really no change. The positive, she is not digressing. Her swelling is going down and the swelling in her face is going down. They said she is making normal progress for a head injury patient but she is still in a deep coma. They are specifically using that terminology.
Please be praying:
1-mom would in some way demonstrate some kind of interaction – sometimes people don’t have that kind of response for 3-4 weeks.
2-pray that both are protected from infections and from clots since they are laying flat all the time.
3-regard to infection for dad – found some issues with skin on legs as result of traumatic type of issue that it was – soft tissue damaged. being diabetic – big cause of concern – don’t want issue with legs and circulation.
4-dads bones would continue to heal and manage pain well.
They continue to be encouraged by the incredible response from friends and family. Jason and Erik’s church families have stepped up to help Jenn and Erin back at home. Please be praying for them as they walk through this with the kids. Erin’s mom is with her and Jenn’s sister Lindsey is staying with her.
Thank you all so much for being the church.
Pray for Dwayne and Trisha Wilson and others as they participate in a mission trip to El Salvadore during the Easter holidays. Pray for the Wilson children and their grandparents as they enjoy this time together.
I look forward to Fridays so I can read KOMpray (Kids on Mission Pray). You can read it too by going to http://kompray.imb.org.
Baptist Press
April 9, 2009
ILLINOIS–FIRST-PERSON (Mark Coppenger): God the Son & His Victorious Resurrection. http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30248
TENNESSEE–Oprah doctor: ‘stem cell debate is dead.’ http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30249
TENNESSEE–Rick Warren: ‘I … never campaigned.’ http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30250
PENNSYLVANIA–Philadelphia churches sweep city with God’s Plan for Sharing. http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30251
KENTUCKY–Resolutions Committee named for ’09 SBC . http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30252
TENNESSEE–Obama tax proposal shouldn’t hurt churches, exec says. http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30253
TENNESSEE–INTERNATIONAL DIGEST: Luis Palau draws 425,000 in Guatemala City. http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30254
VIRGINIA–WORLDVIEW (Erich Bridges): Hope for the hopeless. http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30256
KANSAS–FIRST-PERSON (Phil Boatwright): Films celebrating Jesus’ resurrection. http://www.bpnews.net/BPnews.asp?ID=30257
FBC, Kentwood will have an 8:15 service this week in addition to the normal Sunday School and worship times.
Monday, the Louisiana College Chorale will be in concert at FBC, Kentwood at 7 P.M. I heard this group many times while Jennie and Jason were students at LC. The students in the group will be different, but the high quality should still be the same. Don’t miss this special night!
THE REWARD FOR FAITHFULNESS
I thought you would enjoy the following list of “Rules and Regulations for Teachers in 1872”:
1. Teachers each day will fill lamps, clean chimneys, and trim wicks.
2. Each teacher will bring a bucket of water and scuttle of coal for the day’s sessions.
3. Make your pens carefully: you may whittle nibs to the individual taste of pupils.
4. Men teachers may take one evening each week for courting purposes, or two evenings a week if they go to church regularly.
5. After 10 hours in school, the teachers spend the remaining time reading the Bible or other good books.
6. Women teachers who marry or engage in unseemly conduct will be dismissed.
7. Each teacher should lay aside from each pay a goodly sum of his earnings for his benefit during his declining years so that he will not become a burden on society.
8. Any teacher who smokes, uses liquor in any form, frequents pool or public halls, or get shaved in a barber shop will give good reason to suspect his worth, intentions, integrity and honesty.
9. The teacher who performs his labors faithfully and without fault for five years will be given an increase of 25 cents per week in his pay, providing the Board of Education approves.
I was intrigued by the wording of #9 above. It sounded somewhat familiar to me. Then it dawned on me that there is a similarity to what Jesus had to say to the seven churches of Asia Minor in Revelation 2 and 3.
“Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life.” (Rev.2:10b)
“…[T]hey shall walk with Me in white, for they are worthy. He who overcomes shall be clothed in white garments, and I will not blot out his name from the Book of Life; but I will confess his name before My Father and before His angels.” (Rev. 3:4-5)
There are a couple of significant differences, though, between the promise given to teachers in 1872 and the promises given by Jesus. Jesus doesn’t require that we live “without fault” (and oh, how I’m thankful for that!). The reward that Jesus promises is considerably better than 25 cents for every five years of service (and I’m thankful for that as well!). And it’s not a matter of gaining the approval of a group of men. The only approval that matters is the smile we’ll see on our Father’s face.
Father, thank you for the promises that you have given — not just the promise of a crown or of white garments, but the promise of an opportunity to be in your presence, to be held in your arms. I don’t live before you “without fault”, so I thank you for your grace as I seek to live faithfully as your child. I commit all that I am and all that I have to be used in your service. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Have a great day!
Alan Smith
Helen Street Church of Christ
Fayetteville, North Carolina
Jesus is the reason for the season!
Anna Lee
Thursday
“Because Jesus was raised from the dead,
we’ve been given a brand-new life,
and have everything to live for,
including a future in heaven.”
1 Peter 1:3-4 MSG
Continue to pray for Mrs. Faye Price and her family as they travel down “unfamiliar paths”. “Miss” Faye is back in the nursing home in Kentwood.
Have a better day today than yesterday!
Anna Lee
Wednesday Afternoon
Ora Lee Wilson just called to ask for prayer for her daughter-in-law’s niece. Trisha’s niece, Annie Ford, will be three on the 12th and was diagnosed with a brain tumor today. She will be going to Children’s Hospital in Dallas tomorrow. Her parents are Bently (Trisha’s brother) and Melissa Ford of Tyler. Texas.
Hi, Friends….I just received a call from my brother (Bently Ford) this afternoon telling me that his daughter Annie who will be 3 on the 12th has a brain tumor. We don’t have much info. right now. Last week they took her to the ER because she fell to the floor and said she couldn’t walk. By the time the ER doctor saw her, she was back to her normal self (isn’t that just the way?). My sister-in-law (Melissa) just didn’t feel right about it, so she took Annie to her pediatrician on Monday. They went for an MRI this a.m. and then received this news this afternoon. They are going to Children’s in Dallas on Thursday. They also have a 7 year old, Katie Beth. They live in Tyler.
Thanks praying friends,
Tricia
Please put Chance O’Hern on your prayer list once again. He is having complications. We are going for heart cath soon. No date yet. We are hoping the protein enteropathy can be fixed through heart cath. Otherwise we will have two start giving him two shots a day in the stomach of heparan. Long term, once we start that therapy we have to look at heart transplant. Your prayers are appreciated.
God Bless,
Alice
Updates on the Dukes
Tuesday, April 7, 2009 6:39 PM, EDT
Dad is scheduled for a CT on his arm tonight and surgery on his arm 1st thing in the morning (they estimated 7:30). They just did xrays on Mom’s arms. They have become very swolen and are showing bruising. They think they may be broken. We will know soon.
We are hoping and praying for signs of improvement in the next 48 hours. Thanks so very, very much for all of the prayers and support from so many places. The New Orleans Seminary family has provided us places to sleep and meals. Thanks to them for their local support. We love you and feel your love.
-Jason and Erik
Wednesday, April 8, 2009 1:21 PM, EDT
Update:
Pop is out of surgery. Seems good. Struggling with pain as expected.
Mom is still in a coma, but the doctors encouraged us this morning that they saw some very small progress in her CT. They said they thought she would have disabilities if she makes it, but they ARE HOPEFUL that she will make it.
Keep praying!!! It means so much. We love you
-Jason and Erik
Wednesday, April 8, 2009 4:31 PM, EDT
Erik and I left the hospital this afternoon for a few minutes, just to get some fresh air and a cup of coffee, before we head back to be with Mom and Dad. Neat little coffee shop on the corner of Camp and Girod called PJ’s Coffee of New Orleans. The white mochas aren’t as good as yours Josh, but I dig the spot. In the heart of downtown NOLA.
Anyway, you didn’t ask for local entertainment and eatery recommendations I know. So, we thought we would put a new post here to update you on Mom and Dad. With Erik here with me, I will be able to give you a better description of the medical side of what’s going on. Sorry if stuff is redundant. Days and news are starting to run together, and we’re a bit tired. Sorry if stuff is redundant. Days and news are starting to run together, and we’re a bit tired.
It’s Wednesday afternoon I know now. It’s funny. I thought it was Thursday earlier today. I even texted one of the college students I teach on Thursday mornings to update them on mom and dad, and tell them I hope they enjoy class with the amazing substitute that’s coming. Thanks, Bill Faulkner. But it’s not Thursday. It’s Wednesday.
Dad came out of surgery around noon central time. He was quite groggy. Same kind of reaction as from the surgery Monday. Struggling to come out from under the meds and struggling with the pain. But his left arm is now on the way to recovery. They surgically repaired his humerus (the bone between the shoulder and the elbow). They also fixed his ulna (in his wrist). He will probably be transitioned out of ICU tomorrow, at least we think so, into a step-down room.
It was kind of funny and tough to take all at the same time. In a matter of 20 seconds, he looked me in the eyes and said, “You stole money from me…(a few second pause)…I love you so much.” We are praying he will get good rest today and tonight and be more like himself tomorrow.
Mom is about the same, as far as you would know if you visited her yesterday and then again today. Still in what the doctor called a “deep coma.” The doctor that talked with us this morning explained a little more about the next steps, assuming Mom continues to progress, even if it is really, really, really small baby steps (this is going to be a long road). He said she would need a tracheotomy (for breathing) and a peg tube (a percutaneous endoscopic gastrostomy tube) for feeding. They told us that the swelling was down some more, and that on the CT they could see the ventricles in the middle of her brain carry fluid to and fro – something they had not been able to see before because of the swelling. THAT’S GOOD NEWS, EVEN IF IT IS A VERY MINOR PROGRESSION. At least it’s some kind of progress. No word yet on when they think she could leave the ICU and transition to a long-term care facility. She is still not responsive.
Erik and I sang some hymns over her together. Jen sent me a voice mail with the kids wishing her “get well’s” and asking her to come play. I played it for her twice today. One time this morning in the left ear, then one time this afternoon in the right ear. Just in case she can only hear in one of them.
People continue to pray and send cards and emails and texts and facebook messages and twitters and more. THANK YOU SO VERY, VERY MUCH. Erik and I can’t thank you enough.
We spent time once we got to the apartment last night reading through your amazing notes on the guestbook of this site. We were able to get through 8 pages before being too sleepy to read anymore. We plan on reading more tonight. WE ALSO PLAN ON READING THEM TO DAD ONCE HE IS SETTLED IN A ROOM. I have shared some with Mom, already, as I have been able to, just so she could be encouraged by your love.
With all the sincerity I can muster – your prayers mean so very much. We don’t take them lightly, and we don’t take them for granted.
Thanks to everyone from so many places. Keep praying, please.
OH, BY THE WAY – my dad taught for me on Sunday morning at Westpoint’s worship gathering (our local church there in Orlando) back on March 29th. I asked him to teach that day, because of the specific passage of Scripture we were on. We are walking through 1st John right now, and it was the chapter on how the Father lavishes His love on us and calls us His children. I wanted him to teach that passage, because he has been an amazing picture of the heavenly Father as both a father and grand-father. He did, and it was awesome!
So many of you who were there that Sunday morning have commented to me in some form of how much it meant to you. If you were there, could you please take a minute to go to my blog where I am also posting this update and leave a comment for Dad. Click on the title of the post (“april 8th update on mom and dad”), then leave a comment below the posting – something about what His teaching that day meant to you? I will read it to him after he is more himself. That would mean so much. My blog is www.JasonCDukes.com
Thanks so much. Erik and I love you. Thanks for loving on Mom and Dad and Erin and Jen and the kids!!! It has been an amazing display of the love that Christ desires from His church.
-jason and erik
Wednesday
“Trust in Him at all times, you people;
pour out your heart before Him;
God is a refuge for us.”
~Psalm 62:8~
Two Easter dramas in two nights! Both were good. There were similarities and differences. I was blessed by experiencing both of them. I hope you have been able to participate in something special to help you remember the real meaning of the Easter season. Just like Christmas, Jesus is the meaning of the season!
Don Denton
Today is Tuesday and Don will taper down to 10mg of steroid tomorrow. He has had more headaches and some nausea, but he has not had a relapse. He had a good day today as well.
Joshua is doing somewhat better. He is still having to use the nebulizer as his cough is still holding on.
And for that matter, I have gotten some much needed rest. I just felt that I had hit bottom this weekend with not much sleep for about a week. So I am thankful to have more rest.
We rescheduled Don’s day of testing up in St. Louis for April 17th and then his biopsy will be the last week of April.
Our blast of Winter came and went and we are glad for the hint of Spring again.
Today Don walked without a walker in physical therapy and his therapist says he can start using a cane by weeks end. He will have to take it very carefully as his dizziness is what makes it so difficult to keep his balance.
We are hoping that we all are well enough to go to church this Sunday. It has been most difficult not being able to be in church and be with our church family. WE look for the day that we can be back.
Thank you for continuing to reach out to us and walk with us it means so much to hear such words of encouragement.
…
Bless you our family and friends.
Diane
WEDNESDAY WINDOW ON THE WORLD – April 8, 2009
UNENGAGED PEOPLES OF CENTRAL, EASTERN AND SOUTHERN AFRICA. “For the last few years, prayer requests have been submitted on behalf of the Tsonga-Shangaan (pronounced T’SON-guh shon-GAHN) people of the Limpopo province of South Africa. Approximately 820,000 Tsonga-Shangaan live in the Gazankhulu area of the province, with no IMB personnel living among them. With joy, missionaries serving in the Southeastern Africa Cluster share that the Tsonga-Shangaan of the Limpopo province have been adopted in a prayer partnership by a church in Kansas. What a blessing to begin to work with this church to provide prayer support for the Tsonga-Shangaan people! Pray for unity as we begin this ministry together. Ask the Lord to provide personnel to help and assist in starting new work and developing leadership among the Tsonga-Shangaan.” prayerplus@imb.org
SAUDI ARABS OF SAUDI ARABIA (SAU-dee). “He is risen! He is risen indeed!” are words that are heard in Arabic across the Arab world as Christians greet each other on Easter morning. Unfortunately, these words are not heard in Saudi Arabia unless they are whispered between believers. In fact, Easter is just another workday. Please pray that believers will radiate the love of Jesus during this special season. Pray that their Saudi coworkers and neighbors will see the joy in their faces and ask genuine questions. Pray that believers will have the boldness to share the story of Easter and how Jesus has changed their lives! http://www.lovesaudis.com/
TURKS OF TURKEY’S MEDITERRANEAN REGION. “In a country where soccer is the national sport and American-style football is not played in any high school that we know of, college and ‘professional’ football are attempting to take root. This is a dream come true for our son’s best friend in this country. He first played football when we arrived here a few years ago. Our son, who loves football, taught him the basics of the game. This year, this young man went to a university that has a football team. He has been able to play as a freshman on the team. It is an exciting new sport here, and there are opportunities to share the Good News and build relationships through this sport. It is illegal for adults to share the Good News with a minor in this place, but our children can share with their friends. Over a recent school break, our son was able to share a good deal about the Scriptures with this friend. Please stop and intercede for him. ‘Almighty God, we ask that Your Holy Spirit will quicken this young man’s mind and that he will seek to know You. May the truths that he heard resound in his mind until he comes face to face with Christ, the lover of his soul. Father, we ask You to draw his entire family to Yourself. Please open doors to share the gospel through sports all across this country, and let this be the generation that follows Christ.’”
Tuesday Afternoon Addition
We received word today about rioting in Moldova. They held elections this past Sunday where the Communist Party “won” the majority of votes to gain control of the Parliament. They will now choose the new President. As there is much speculation of unfair voting, many are reacting with violent protests. So far the rioters have invaded the Presidential Palace and the Parliament Building. …here is a link to one news article http://en.rian.ru/world/20090407/120965373.html
Pray for the two IMB missionary families in Moldova. They are safe and trying to stay out of the hot spots. Pray for their continued safety. This Sunday will be Palm Sunday there. Pray for God’s presence to be felt among the Moldovans and they will realize the need to seek God’s direction in their lives.
Pray for an end to the violence to stop.
Thank you for praying!
Melinda
Tuesday Afternoon
Mrs. Frances Bell had hip surgery yesterday afternoon. Please continue to pray for her.
Donald Guy Burnthorn
Died on Monday, April 6, 2009 at River Parishes Hospital in LaPlace,
LA. He was a native of Independence, LA and a resident of Loranger, LA.
Age 49 years. Visitation at McKneely Funeral Home, Amite, from 6 p.m.
until 9 p.m. on Thursday and from 8 a.m. until religious services at 11
a.m. Friday. Interment Lawrence Memorial Gardens, Loranger, LA. He is
survived by his wife, Connie Poolson Burnthorn, Loranger; daughter,
Chelsea Brooke Burnthorn, Loranger; 3 sisters, Shirland Smith and
husband, Ken, Denham Springs, Brenda McNeal, Maurepas and Lanell
Sanders and friend, Tom Jacocks, Zachary; mother, Dorothy Rodriguez
Burnthorn, Loranger; numerous nieces nephews and other family members.
He was preceded in death by his father, Luke Burnthorn; step-father,
Tim Burnthorn. He will be sadly missed by his family and many, many
friends.
There are three updates on the Dukes. I was going to shorten these updates, but decided you need to hear the physical condition of those in the accident and the spiritual and emotional condition of those who are at their bedside. The key word now is PRAYER!
10:19 A.M. EDT
Hello all,
The family is super super thankful for all the love
and support that they are receiving. Jason mentioned that he wept over
the tremendous outpouring of love that you all have given.
Things
are still very hectic with the hospital care, so the family has asked
for everyone to stay tuned through this web site to relieve some of the
chaos. We will most definitely let you know how you can serve when the
time comes. For now, prayer is absolutely HUGE!!!
Jimmy’s
surgery went well yesterday. They were able to get everything done that
they needed to in his legs and feet. He has rods in his legs and pins
in his feet. He will have surgery tomorrow to repair the breaks in his
left arm and wrist. The biggest thing to pray for there is a successful
surgery tomorrow, but he is in a tremendous amount of pain. Please pray
for grace and comfort in that area.
Good news on his neck. The
doctors said that he should just have to wear a neck brace for 5-6
weeks rather than the halo that they thought he would have to wear for
a longer period of time. The fractures there should heal on their own.
Unfortunately,
it is still not looking good for Retia. They’ve determined that at
least a quarter of her brain is bruised. They also said that if she
wakes up, there will be significant long term issues. So, we simply need to be praying for a MIRACLE there. We serve an awesome God and He is fully capable!!!
Again,
thank you so very much for your love and support and prayers. How
amazing is it that God created us to walk and journey together through
the good and the tough times and that we don’t have to be alone? God is
good!!!
12:10 P.M. EDT
Wow – first I have to write to tell all of you that Erik and I and our wives and kids are so blessed and so overwhelmed
by the love you all have poured out to us and our mom and dad since
Saturday night. Too many to mention, so please let this suffice as at
least a first of hopefully many thank you’s that will come. Secondly,
we have been so touched by the number of people who have responded to
this tragic situation with our parents and have been praying in their
local communities for mom and dad and our family. We so appreciate it and love you all so much.
This
has been hard. Just being honest. I have even been thinking a lot in
the last year about how Jen and I and Erik and Erin are entering a
season of life where walking with our parents toward death is a
reality. This situation has brought it into full attention. That is ok,
because death is inevitable, at least from these mortal bodies.
The sorrow that causes for all of humanity angers me, a bit like Jesus
was angered by it in John 11, because the havoc wreaked from what
happened in the Garden continues to wreak havoc in the lives of the
people God loves so much all over the world. Oh for the day when
restoration is ultimately completed. Nonetheless, this has been hard.
It’s
been hard simply processing that mom and dad were run over by an SUV.
It kills me inside to think of the horror and hurt of that moment. The
driver did stop. He is very disturbed. Please pray for him, too.
It’s
been hard looking at a woman who was once a stunning beauty and who at
68 looked 45 now be reduced to a mostly shaved head and a large piece
of her skull missing to relieve the pressure from the swelling of her
brain. It’s been hard speaking to and singing to Mom and not hearing
her beautiful voice or feeling her love pats that she became famous for
among the people who know her well. It’s been hard watching dad hurt so
much from multiple fractures and hurt when he breathes. It’s been hard.
It’s
been hard talking on the phone to Jen and the kids back in Orlando and
Katey asking me to ask Ammaw if she can come over soon to watch Tom and
Jerry. It’s been hard hearing Abby ask for her “Big Bird” (what she
calls Pop right now – she loves to pretend) and for her Ammaw to come
over to play. It’s been hard knowing that Caleb knows what’s going on,
and Katey somewhat, and the thought of them not interacting with
Mom the same way again. It’s been hard knowing all those boys of Erik’s
who have been eagerly looking forward to Pop and Ammaw’s visit that
would have happened next this Friday (April 10th) will be disappointed.
It’s
been hard thinking about the stuggle Dad will have to walk again. It’s
been hard thinking about whether Mom will even wake up again. It’s been
hard.
But it’s been good.
It’s been good being with
friends and family. It’s been good watching the church be the church in
so many places – praying, responding, caring, believing. Being a community of people who deeply love each other the way we were intended to love each other.
It’s
been good hearing the stories from people whom Mom and Dad have touched
and loved and impacted. So many. I told Erik last night, “We swim in
the large ocean of Mom and Dad’s faithfulness and love and credibility that has given refreshing water to so many.”
It’s been good knowing that, barring some complication with Dad, that he and I will enjoy a coffee and conversation together again at House Blend Cafe or the Starbuck’s at the Winter Garden Village.
It’s
been good, the support Erik and I both have gotten from those we work
with, giving us the freedom to be with Mom and Dad, providing resources
to help make it happen.
It’s been good knowing that, because of that support, I will have so much intense time with my dad and mom helping them recover.
Thank you for your cards and texts and voice mails and facebook messages and twitters and hugs and support. It’s been good.
Please pray for Mom to respond in some fashion that demonstrates interaction and isn’t just potentially a motor-sensory reflex. The next two days are crucial. Wednesday night will have been 96 hours since the accident, and the neuro-surgeon said that will be a bit of a landmark time.
Please
pray for Dad to be able to be comforted in his pain. Pray for his
surgery tomorrow to fix his left arm – broken in 3 places. He is
left-handed, so it will be a long road on that one. Both legs had
rods placed in from knee to ankle yesterday afternoon. He won’t be able
to walk on it for a month, they said. He has to wear a neck collar for
5 to 6 weeks. They said the fracture in his neck should heal in that
time. Several broken ribs punctured his lung, making it hard to
breathe. Pray for that to heal well, too. And a long road of rehab.
By the way – please pray for my friend, Kris DenBesten. His 9 year old daughter still is waiting for a heart transplant. He sent a text of prayer and support. That meant so much, considering all he is walking through.
Thanks again to all of you. We love you. I will try to update again soon.
-jason
4:45 P.M. EDT
As of this afternoon Mom/Retia is doing about the same. One
doctor has described her condition as a deep coma. She is not getting
worse. Another doctor encouraged us to not give up hope.
Thanks so much for the prayers. Please keep it going.
Tuesday
Monday Evening
Update on the Dukes 8:45 P.M.
Latest information on Mr. and Mrs. Dukes
Hey everyone,
We got the report from Jimmy's surgery on his legs and feet. Everything went well,
and the doctors did everything they needed to do for his legs and feet in the one
surgery.
They plan on operating on his left arm this Wednesday, to repair the fractures there.
They have also discovered that he has a broken wrist. So, there is still plenty
to pray for. But we're thankful for a good surgery today!
Things are still the same with Retia. They are awaiting the results of more tests.
Please continue to pray for God's healing power in her body.
Thank you all so much for your love and support and prayers. God is good!

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